I can officially say I’ve lived abroad for a month now! Only three and half months left. Wow.
I can’t say that it has been everything I expected. It has not been bad, just different. I guess when I thought about studying abroad, I forgot about the studying part! I thought about all the fun I would be having exploring a different country, reminiscent of the many trips I went on with my parents when I was younger. The problem is, I’m still at school. Minus all the networks of Greek life, work, and other friends that I’ve built over the past two and half years, and plus a slight language barrier!
So it’s just been different. For example, I feel like RPI is a lot more social in school, on campus. At RPI there are dining halls where everyone spends a lot of their time (at least Freshman year), and these are great places to start friendships. I can’t tell you how many people I became friends with because I would meet them briefly somewhere, and then run into them again at Commons or Sage dining halls, or even in the Union. Now maybe it’s still like that here, and I just don’t know it. I live so close to campus, and I don’t want to buy my lunch everyday when I can make it at home for cheaper. But I have gone to the canteens a couple times, and I didn’t get the same feeling I get in the cafeterias at home. I think another huge aspect is the dormitory/residence halls that are so common at US universities. At RPI, everyone lives on campus their first year. After that, almost everyone lives within walking distance, and many of those who don’t have cars or roommates with cars. This means that everyone is clustered together, whereas at DTU people are strewn across Lyngby and Copenhagen, some an hour or more away by public transportation. Not the most conducive to socialization.
Something else I’ve noticed, (after being inspired by a blog post of my friend studying abroad in the Netherlands on http://loganaround.blogspot.nl/) is the impact of US and other cultures in Denmark, and how they view Americans here. First of all, I think that because in Europe there are so many countries so close to each other (almost like states in the US) people think and talk about other countries a lot more than we do in the states. How many times do you think about going skiing in another country, or spending your spring break in another country? I guess for those of us who live in the north, spending a weekend skiing in Canada would not be out of the question, but other than that, I do not have many conversations about different countries. When we talked about patent law in one of my classes at home, we only spoke about US patents. I recently had a lecture about patent law while here in Denmark. The lecturer spoke not only about Danish patents, but about international patents. She spoke about specific patent laws in the UK, and she went into detail about how patent law differs in the US from in the EU. In addition, all my textbooks are American and refer to feet and Fahrenheit and other British units, even though nobody uses those here.
More than half the time I walk into my kitchen the TV has American shows on. They really like the Big Bang Theory, How I Met Your Mother (two of my faves as well!), and American Dad. My whole kitchen stayed up all night to watch the Superbowl, while I (the only American) went to sleep. The Superbowl didn’t even start until midnight here. At parties, I recognize almost all the music. “Thrift Shop” by Macklemore recently became popular, as well as a weird slow version of Ke$ha’s “Die Young.”
Even though American culture is really popular here, I still feel like Americans themselves are not. The “fat, dumb, loud” American is definitely a stereotype here. It’s really frustrating sometimes. For instance, in one of my classes last week we watched some clips from Jamie Oliver’s Food Revolution, when he went to West Virginia. Granted, he did choose the unhealthiest city in the United States (according to some government statistics), but I still felt super defensive. In the video, he asked little kids what a tomato was. And they didn’t know. They called it a potato. And everyone in the class was laughing. But I am sure that I mixed up the word for tomato and the word for potato when I was little. That doesn’t mean that now I’ve grown up into a fat, dumb American. At the same time, I don’t know if I should stand up for the United States, or just admit that some parts of the United States scare me too. Over the summer I traveled with my mother to West Virginia, and sometimes it felt more foreign to me than Denmark does. Sure everything was in English there, but the people here have much more similar beliefs to those I’m used to in the Northeast. Either way, I am very thankful for my parents raising me to eat and like healthy food. I hope I’m giving everyone a good impression of the United States while I’m here!